What is unattractive about a nice guy? Why do some women don’t choose nice guys?

Nice men are not in tune with themselves. They’re usually not romantic or sexual. These men then wonder why bad men are the ones getting all the women. That’s because bad men do things nice men don’t do like say they just want sex. Its no surprise.

Bad men are exciting and challenging. They make women feel insecure. Women will ask “does he love me? Does he not? Is he cheating? Is he serious?” Its not surprising nice men don’t get anywhere with women.

Surprisingly, my crush laughed and said “aww!” She respected me more after. She came in the room, spoke to me with affection, and gave me food. She said goodbye with a smile as me and my mom left. I was very awkward around her. I wondered “why didn’t she get upset? I said alot of horrible things about her and her man. She should be angry. She should’ve been lecturing my mom about how wrong that is. Its a crush but what i said was reckless.”

Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun... A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying. One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever.. We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc If u want pics of her text me.

I was a very bad boy when i was very young. I don’t condone violence at all now but i had a violent reputation on the street. Girls liked me regardless. One loved my unpredictablity. I excited her.

I realize now its because women love brutal honesty and passion which is rare. If i was a man when i told her that, i probably could’ve stole her from her man.

The main reason women fall for bad men is because abusive fathers. They influenced how women saw men when they were children. This is a problem.

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Nice men are not assertive. If a woman likes a man and he likes her but she says “let’s just be friends..”, he’ll agree to it for her. This is problematic. Nice men are essentially stepping aside when assertive men want their crushes and saying “I like this woman but don’t have the courage to tell her how i really feel so i hope she’ll see me! Please! Take my crush!” Bad man after bad man will keep taking their crushes. Its no wonder why bad men are so successful with women while nice men aren’t.

The other reason is nice men are boring. Nice men don’t have much personality other than niceness. When nice men say things like “my love! I’ll always be there for you!” and prove it, its too easy. Women will appreciate it but its not interesting. When a nice man showers a woman with gifts, compliments, etc. then she already knows how he feels about her. When a nice man is always available, its not challenging for women. The nice man likes her. What more is there to do and say?

“Bad” men are honest. They have the courage to express themselves even if they know women will get hurt by the truth. For example, one of my ex girlfriends essentially asked me “would you want to be happy in a relationship with another man?” I said “no..” She was shocked, laughed, and said “what kind of response is that?!?” We kissed.

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When we got home, i cried alot in front of my mom. She tried to comfort, telling me that’s a part of life. I angrily told her how much i hated them, all the bad things i wanted to happen to them, etc. I think my mom got very jealous. She wasn’t going to let another woman take her baby boy from her. One night, we visited her at her apartment. She was nice. She let me sleep in her room while she spoke with my mom at the dinner table. My mom laughed as they began talking about me. My mom told her “my son really likes you..” and told her everything i said about her while giggling. As soon as she started speaking, i wanted to die on the spot. Words can’t describe the level of embarrassment and shock i had.

Its not that women don’t want nice men and prefer bad men per say. Of course, women want nice men. The problem with nice men is the expectation women should be attracted to them ONLY because they’re nice. Here’s why only being a nice man will not attract women.

Nice men are dishonest. The ones who agree to be friends with women, hoping it turns into a relationship, are lying and manipulating women. That’s selfish. Those so called “nice men” are bad men in disguise.

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When i was a child like 6 years old, i had a crush on a woman. She was beautiful with shoulder length brown hair, black highlights, gold necklaces, red lipstick, fair skin, etc. Her name was Maricruz i think. I saw her with another man from afar. They were feeding each other. While i was watching, i was devastated. I was filled with jealousy. I hated them. I wanted to kill him. I felt if i had a gun on me in that moment, i was the type to point it at him then violently squeeze the trigger until i ran out of bullets. As i was on the way home in a van, i threw up my middle finger at random cars with hate. If he was the driver, i hoped he saw it. I wanted him to see it.